As a single person, you may regularly see attractive girls in town who blow your mind just by looking at them—and who you would love to get to know. Or maybe you already have contact with a wonderful lady whose heart you want to win on a date instead of just ending up as a “good buddy” in the miserable friend zone. Anyway, you are now asking yourself: “How can I conquer a woman? Are there any practical tips and tricks? A system or strategies that I can follow?” You stand there quite helplessly, like a cow in a thunderstorm, and don’t know how to get closer to beauty. But it’s good that you ended up with me.
Not only have I tried out all the flirting methods in practice myself, but as a coach I have also helped hundreds of men to find a great girlfriend. With this wealth of knowledge and experience, I will now reveal to you in this article the 4 best tips on how to create magical attraction and win a woman’s heart.
Conquering a woman – why you shouldn’t be afraid
In reality, most men’s failure in love is simply due to the fact that they have completely wrong ideas about flirting. They believe in the old myths that they have absorbed like a sponge from Hollywood romance films or conversations with friends and parents.
1. Go out more often and meet women
It’s a banal truth when looking for a partner that most men forget again and again: Unless you want to be successful in online dating, you have to leave the house and meet singles outside. How else are you going to conquer a woman? No pretty lady will suddenly ring your doorbell.
2. Forget the eye contact rule
Again and again I read in bad advice articles for singles that men cannot or are not allowed to approach women “just like that”. Instead, the men should first make eye contact with their “target object” and wait until the woman smiles at them – as an “invitation”, so to speak.You don’t even need to try this strategy, because you definitely won’t win over a pretty damsel this way.
3. Overcoming the fear of approaching
Do your eagle eyes spot a woman you like? Now you must not hesitate, but rather “must” walk straight up to the chosen one and speak to her within the first three seconds. Why three seconds? It’s simple: This is exactly the time period when your brain is not throwing a spanner in the works—by giving you excuses as to why you shouldn’t approach the lady. Besides, it will be quite disturbing to your “target” if you keep sneaking around them like a lion around its prey.
4. Plan a romantic date with an “experience factor”
Female singles usually have dates that always follow the same pattern: They sit together in the cinema or in a bar and ask each other boring questions like in a job interview. But if you want to win a woman’s heart, you have to offer her a unique encounter that is different from what she usually experiences with guys.
